Guys I’m one of those people she triggers I actually really like her but can’t watch her vids for long without losing it. I’m triggered because I lost so many years of my youth and didn’t pursue my passion singing music producing at her age . I was like blind unaware to what I had and it sucks. I read so many comments so much that are like, “She so young, she’s young talented beautiful” over and over and over again and I compare myself and like in regards to age I feel can’t compete , becuse I’m so many years older . Like over 15 yrs
In terms of skill I don’t dance like her though I could learn but she has unique dance well it’s rooted in South Africa but she’s made it basically famous worldwide . And the way she moves my God like smh. Kpop following it kehlani following it. But the way she does it ..😫
She apparently comes from rich family I don’t .
She is light skinned (yeah we are going to talk about it).I ’m not
She isn’t Mariah Carey or Ariana vocally but she has beautiful tone to her voice which I compare to mine and mine doesn’t seem to have same rich tone which she seems to conjure up effortlessly. Her looks The vibes and aura and sprit she gives of is like witchcraft. It’s that alluring and like people are just in awe
She wears the most amazing clothes that fit her and take her looks to god level
Normally I wouldn’t share this but I guess I’m trying to be more vulnerable so here’s to vulnerability
Like my identity has been wrecked , I don’t even know if I’m gay/bi anymore becuse I’m like thinking that I don’t respect myself if I’m with a girl. But at same time I don’t care about men that much but I’d like to be respected like Tyla is. Like I feel like seeing yourself as most beautiful girl in the world affects something
Like I believe god gave me part of antidote to this issue. Many years ago almost 8 or more
A family member had prophesied or felt God said I should see my self as the most beautiful girl in the world. Sometime afterwards, Ironically one of the most prettiest attractive interesting young ladies I’ve ever known also gave me the same advice too !! It felt so ironic.
I ignored the advice in my analytical mind took over like it doesn’t make sense. But looking back and looking at what I’m struggling with now. If I felt that way maybe I would feel this way about Tyla
Like I feel id rather believe and see myself as most beautiful girl in the world than tk even be a billionaire.
I also beleive perhaps God told me “your job is to be a girl” Tyla embodies that and look how successful she is
Society places so much value on physical beauty but then I think again. We age, we’re not going to look like 22 ye old forever as much as we try. Some people look great for their age but I have yet to see someone looking 22 forever. ( if your from Sammys mermaid gang lol anything is possible )
Who know if in future this issue could be resolved but things like this make me feel like building my brand and value off of physical beauty is like building a house on sand. But then again maybe I’m overthinking this .. and should still work on seeing myself as most beautiful girl in yhe world. I may not see how this could be a positive effect. On top of that if you have youthful beauty I say use it to your advantage to save money for future or to invest in something that has more long terms generating value .
And following Tyla example as much as able to
- No bars held on displaying where you matter. Doing best you can to present yourself in best light possible . Always . Not every now and then . With not limits. None. She doesn’t dull her light at all.
- Dressing to the 10s and beyond. She dresses like a goddess —look at where she’s at. Like gold, silver pieces that shine
- Showing your best features. She know her waist and hips are part of her best assets and her clothing highlights that
- I believe she dresses in way that make her feel confident and how she wants to feel hence why she gives of the “aura” or vibe
- She is being herself. She knows how to do that well
She apparently also messaged many producers on line to get to where she was. She also did social media posts regularly . I don’t know the full story.
At the end of the day she does have privileges I don’t have that helped her get to where she was at though but that doesn’t t need to stop me or anyone else from unveiling our highest potentials. Everyone probably has something that others don’t that they can use to their advantage
I remember there was a post on tiktok where the guy said that every has to find out where they matter for some they have very good looks for others they’re amazing scientist ,others Athletes, etc . some of us have unique talents , and physical traits that give us a unique look or edge and it’s up to us to find that , enhance it as much as possible and use to our advantage. So this kind of plays into that too
Btw that sand thing at the met gala really irked me 😅. It’s giving I’m just a damsel so fragile . I was like eww about that but apparently lot of people are attracted to that
There are some fears about letting my “light” shine but I can’t continue to be sulking about it , got to take wise risks I guess
Girls dress well
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